Relationship Courses & Seminar Series: 

      54. Catch a Cheating Spouse    @$5.00/$10.00

    Safeguarding your marriage is easier once you have the knowledge you need. That’s why we wrote this Course / eBook! Later, you will see a clear opportunity to secure all this important information for yourself.  It is up to you to take the initiative and preserve the integrity and trust of your special loving partnership.

  There are many givens when anyone plunges into a romantic relationship of marriage. Most woman enter a marriage expecting the man to change; a man enters a marriage expecting the woman to stay the same.

     Most men are thrilled with the idea of a chase; women are thrilled with the idea of being with one man for life.  However, another truth of relationships and marriage is that infidelity and cheating are common and run rampant in society. Some people believe that is a given in the modern-day marriage. We present other ideas to show marriage can be the best relationship ever.           99 pages/ 3 worksheets

    55. Enhancing Relationships @$5.00/$10.00  

     Many people are afraid of conflict.  That is, they avoid bringing up issues that may upset the other …. but how is anything ever resolved if it isn’t discussed?       Relationship issues seldom ‘heal’ by themselves.  Being critical and judging one another is a large barrier to relating to others.  When I judge someone, they often feel rejected by me.  This can happen sub-consciously. 

   One source of conflict in relationships is when one person is emotional, and the other is logical during an argument.  If the logical one tries to use reason while the other is occupied by trying to get their emotions under control, there will be trouble!  Facing and coming to terms with society’s biases and preconceptions of singles can be a part of deep identity.                   89 pages 5 and worksheets.

    56.  Relationship Principles       @$5.00/$10.00

     Facing and coming to terms with society’s biases and preconceptions of singles can be a part of deep identity issues.  Forgiving prejudices towards singles, making workable adjustments in a couple-based society, facing overwhelming aloneness and the doubt about one’s personal worth, are all common areas of growth for singles. 

    This is not God’s attitude towards Singles.  We all have issues to resolve - whether married or single. The tendency is to think that marriage = happiness, but this is not always the truth!  In fact, for many, it is worse to be in a permanent marriage without ever knowing fulfilment or compatibility.     15 pages / 3 Worksheets

 57. Preparing for Marriage, Series16-2 @$5.00/$10.00   

     It is quite amazing how many fights are started by ignorance     about the psychology of the opposite sex.  We are not the same! It is a scientific fact that male and female brains are structurally different.  Males are noy like females but in a male body!

   Every person needs to study the other sex and find out what is important to them.  All of us need to read books about the gender we are married to.  One such book is “Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus” by Gray.  

     Setting the person free to be who God designed them to be is a big challenge, but necessary to the health of a relationship.     16 pages / 4 Worksheets

      58. Making Healthy Marriages , Series 16-3     @$5.00/$10.00

     Why didn’t Adam stop Eve when he saw she was disobeying God?  I think the short answer is that he was tempted by Satan as well.  Adam wanted that fruit just as much (if not more) than Eve.

     Notice that Adam disobeyed God’s command to protect the Garden (and Eve and what was in it).  Adam did not ‘bring about the best flower’ in Eve; he did not challenge the Serpent when it started chatting to Eve.  Sad to say, this is the similar pattern in most marriages today.           24 page / 2 worksheets

 59. Separation, Divorce and Remarriage, Series16-4      @$5.00/$10.00

    This session is not designed to make you into ‘experts’ on the theological debate of this topic.  In fact, the more we begin to examine the Biblical stand on separation, divorce and remarriage, the more complicated the picture becomes. 

    Finally, we must be careful to examine the Bible’s statements on divorce, in the light of what Jesus was really saying vs traditions that have been given to the church as truth.       16 pages / 2worksheets. 

    60. Personal Communications                @’$5.00/$10.00

  Although different situations call for different conflict styles, most of us need to change our attitudes and learn good conflict resolution skills.  Often conflict is an opportunity to see another’s point of view.  It can be a chance to clear the air about misunderstandings.

  Some people are particularly good at giving "hidden messages" but then get upset when their partner doesn't know how to decode the message.  The partner then gets blamed for being "insensitive", when actually they are just ignorant of the real signals. Unfortunately, ‘decoding’ is always guess-work.  We can never be completely sure we have analyzed the message correctly, unless we use reflective listening techniques to double-check what we "think" we have understood.                        57 pages / 5 worksheets                This course is in Seminar & Zoom format.

 61.  So, what is real Listening?        Series 13-1                  @$5.00/$10.00

      Because we are unique individuals, we all have our own style of handling conflict.  Some withdraw, others come out fighting.  By recognizing our own fight style and discussing it with our partner we reduce the number of ‘unknowns’ that cause difficulties.

     Learn to take responsibility for your own reactions.  People don't "make" you angry.  If you are angry, you have allowed yourself to be so through your own attitudes.                              15 pages / 2 Worksheets

  62. Using Clear Expression, Series 13:2                 @$5.00/$10.00

  Sometimes we accidentally hide the real meaning of what we are saying by not expressing ourselves well.  Other times we hide the real meaning deliberately. Some people are particularly good at giving "hidden messages" but then get upset when their partner doesn't know how to decode the message. 

  The partner then gets blamed for being "insensitive", when actually they are just ignorant of the real signals.          17 pages / 4 Worksheets

 63. Assertiveness? How do I do this?            Series 13-3             @$5.00/$10.00

    When people hear the word 'assertive', they immediately connect it with being aggressive.  As we shall see, the two are quite different.  Often, though, we need to be trained to be assertive and not aggressive (or passive).  When we learn these skills, it is called assertiveness training. 

   Under-development of either assertion or listening causes limited interactions between two people. When this happens, nothing much of importance takes place in the conversation.       15 pages / 3 worksheets

  64. Learning to Fight Fair, Series 13-4             FREE

  It is impossible to totally escape conflict, but much needless hurt and strife could be avoided by saying things more accurately.  We need to learn better communication skills.  A goal we need to set before us is:

"...dumping one's bucket of tensions without filling the other's bucket".  (Intimate Enemy, page 211.)     

         Many of male/female fighting styles are culturally learned and encouraged by society.  In the heat of battle, destructive methods of fighting are used by both sexes.  Both sexes tend to ‘gunny sack’ (store up venom), use physical force - slaps or fingernails - use name calling, 'hitting below the belt', mind reading, withdrawal or aggression.          14 pages / 4 worksheets                FREE

     65. Conflict Resolution       @$5.00/$10.00

   This seminar is based on principles that arise in counselling couples.   We discuss ingredients for successful couple growth: male-female differences, fight styles, conflict resolution principles, forgiveness and letting go of the past - all with a ‘hands on’ approach.  

     Our main aim is to try to understand why couples fight.  The first major reason for conflict the fight for INTIMACY: “How close I let you come into my life or how far away will I keep you?              43 pages / 3 Worksheets

66. Marriage Fidelity Forever - That's the Goal             @$5.00/$10.00

      Infidelity is a big problem in marriage and relationships. In fact, cheating is the leading cause of broken marriages and families.  According to some surveys, about half of all men and women cheat at least once during their married life. where either party is not constrained by a written, legal, or religious commitment.

     Sadly, cheating can be used by men to brag, or women to make excuses for not finding the men they truly deserve.  This eBook will help you to know why a partner will cheat in the first place. How can you help prevent this behavior, and what are the signs and symptoms? There are ways to make a marriage relationship as cheat-proof as possible.           99 pages / 3 Worksheets

   67. Understanding Women, Series 15-3            @$5.00/$10.00

   You know, women are not males in a female body?  When Jesus was here on Earth, He had very radical views (for His time) of women. He broke many social and religious taboos. To begin with, He rejected the commonly held view that women were a male's possessions, like "my sheep, my wagon, my wife, my oxen, my children".  

     Jesus showed love and care for the individual, whether they were male or female. He challenged men and women to take up their God-given roles, first toward God, then towards one another. So, how do we do this? Catch this Course / eBook for practical suggestions.        65 pages / 13 worksheets    This course is in Seminar & Zoom format.

  68. Understanding Males          @$5.00/$10.00

  In this seminar, we consider the complicated issues relating to the longest running war in history: the battle between the sexes.   There is plenty of pain, confusion and conflict connected with the discussion of sex roles - even among Christians.  

     Some people claim the sexes are identical in skills, attitudes and potentials.  They believe that if boys and girls were treated the same, there would be no difference between males and females beyond the basic obvious anatomy.  At the risk of being labelled “anti-female” or sexist, we clearly believe that there is a God-given alternative.  Women were created different to Males, with different commissions and gifting.   This course is in Seminar & Zoom format.                                14 pages and 4 worksheets

 69. God’s Calling to be Male, Series 15-1             FREE

  What do most men need to know: It is not just good enough to be a balanced human being and trying to strengthen myself where there are weaknesses.  I also need to know the ‘rules’ of logic, emotions, spirit and heart and apply them effectively.  This means rearranging your priorities.  Build yourself up. 

   You can’t love others properly until you love yourself in a Godly way. If you choose the New Nature, you have to grow the loving relationship between you and God.  This means rearranging your priorities.  Build yourself up.  You can’t love others properly until you love yourself in a Godly way.   12 pages / 3 Worksheets

70.  Raising Boys to be Men, Series 15-2          @$5.00/$10.00

    Put another way, the heart’s desire of unredeemed man is something similar to the ideal of Norm in the ‘Life Be in It’ cartoon.  Norm sits in front of the Telly watching sport with a tinny of beer, being served hand and foot by the ‘Old Lady’ (while the kids are acting up undisciplined in the background).

   However, this is not a great picture for any male to adopt. This seminar lays out more principles to help males become the best that they can be … isn’t that what we need?

   How our society, families and marriages need males who know who they are and not under the false ideas for those around them. 49 pages / 4 Worksheets

  71.  Parenting your Preteen, Series   15-3             @$5.00/$10.00

    The fact that preteen parenting concerns you as a reader reveals that you’ve made the effort to better parenting. Actually, this stage is not only special; it is in fact crucial to understand.  What goes on in these years will eventually shape the kind of relationships that exist in the teen years and well into adulthood. 

    The years from 9 to 12 presents many fascinating qualities and special needs. The child of this age is marked by unique milestones that parents need to know. It’s a time when children are looking at the world in new ways … and their self-image is changing. You as the parent need to know how to best make these changes as healthily and smooth as possible.          35 pages

    72. Romance School, Series 15-4                       FREE
    Many men are confused over what women want. This is understandable, since very few men had fathers that taught them the real nature of women.

    Women have an in-built need to talk. It is a very healthy thing, which most men don't understand. A very practical way of meeting a woman's needs is to discover, and supply, the number of 'points' she needs to stay healthy.

Women need anywhere from 20-40 points every day to feel satisfied which their mate.  Every act that says, "I love you" is worth one point. Interesting concept!       23 Pages/3 worksheets

73.   What About Internet Dating?                              @$5.00/$10.00

       This is our 'Waiting, Dating & Choosing a Mate' Series: The Internet Dating Scene: Some of your friends are even using this as a way of finding hat special someone … but what are the dangers?    

      Here is a practical guide to keep handy for the do’s and don’ts when you face the Internet adventure. We have included some valuable tips about the male – female conflicts, the best way around such roadblocks and how to start this important venture.                        65 pages

 74.   What your Dad didn’t Teach you About the Opposite Sex!    @$5.00/$10.00        

     Let's face it - your Dad didn't have all the answers. Here are some Male/Female areas he probably missed sharing with you:  Males and Females are Different! Yes, how so?  Big difference show up in handling Conflict, attitudes about Marriage ... and the big one: Sex!

    Come join us as we explore areas that might not be the 'correct' view but will definitely challenge you to see the difference between the genders in a new way.

46 pages/9 Worksheets

76. Please Save my Marriage!           $5.00/$10.00 

     It’s so easy for us to fall in love, we assume that it SHOULD be easy to stay in love. I’m here to tell you that STAYING in love takes commitment. This is why we should take seriously the marriage vows during wedding ceremonies. 

    Now, here’s the challenge. Think of a car. If, while driving, you take your hands off the steering wheel, what happens? The car drifts to the right. If you allow the drift to continue, it will crash. Likewise, your relationships - be it your marriage or your friendships - will drift away from where they should be – and will “crash” if that drift continues. It takes conscious, deliberate, and decisive effort to keep your relationships on track.

     That’s what this Course / e-Book is all about – to help you put your marriage back on track and enjoy an amazing relationship with your husband or wife! We’re going to provide a simple, step-by step plan to help you unlock the secrets of success for your marriage.                                                    18 pages / 3 worksheets

77.  What's Christian Inner Healing?               $5.00/$10.00 

  Working with our Creator allows His miracle power to help us see the problems and find His way of solving our dysfunctions. As we heal the entry point where the reactions of any trauma first started, we find release of the Heart lies.  As the Truth gets down into the Heart, we find a healing peace and wholeness. The memory will still be there, but the pain will be gone!  This eBook explains the process, the whys and the results when we find Inner Healing God’s way.   See our Blog post on this topic! 

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